Well there have been some major developments as of late. The story is one that I feel should be shared with those of you who have followed me and know me so well.
In my seemingly endless search for the thing I feel most people of the Earth desire; the thing that is unconquerable, thwartless, innate, beautiful beyond compare, and simply bliss in the hearts of all things that live, I believe I have found the beginnings of something incredible. That thing that I am suggesting is called Love. Now the story…
About a month ago I was on Growlr( I know, really?) and I was…well…flirting it up. I had many offers for different things. One of these really caught my attention. I will leave the gentleman’s name masked. He was a complete gentleman and requested my number after about an hours worth of chatting back and forth. I obliged knowing 1 of 2 things would happen:
1. Nothing, I would be offering up my number to the universe and receive nothing in return.
2. He and I would text back and forth and then things will fall out and we would never text again after a time.
Well neither if those things happened. The two of us have since texted, called and gone on 3 wonderful dates. He is just as stimulating and gentlemanly in person as he is in digital format.
Then there is the other man I met in the last week. The way we met was kinda funny and not in any manner of thought what I would have expected to turn out anything good. About a week ago I went out with some friends celebrate a birthday. For this celebration we went to a local gay bar to dance and devirginize said bday compatriot’s life of not having experienced a gay bar. We arrived there before the party really started but we had a blast!! In the midst of our enjoyment there was a gentleman who arrived and immediately caught my eye. He was dressed up more than anyone else seemed to be. But it wasn’t so much his outfit that kept my gaze turning towards him. His eyes…wow his eyes. And his smile. He was simply charming. I wanted so bad to go say hello and dance with him but he was preoccupied. So I danced and watched him from afar. Later I jumped onto Grindr(yes, indeed I did) and saw him on there. We chatted and eventually ended up exchanging numbers. We talked and text and then a couple days later had out first date. It was cute, simple but fun. We have since spent time together and continued to find more and more similarities between each other. It is nothing short of blissful memories being made.
Now I’m sure you are all wanting to know which one of these gentleman I have continued to see: Mr Grindr or Mr Growlr. Well watch for my next installment and you shall know :)
Check ya later
Life, in and of itself, is a personal reality which then coincides with other realities that spiral and coexist together as separate yet similar entities. They evolve by giving to and taking from one another. It’s not something some people may understand as a whole, but I have given some true thought to this to better not only myself but all those around me. My true thought is that love is the part of this I do not yet understand to its fullest state. I hope that I may find someone who understands and shares in this thought, to be one with another and to make each other better through coexistence.